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With only two days left of this DECADE (so crazy!), I wanted to share some things I am leaving behind in 2020. This has been quite the decade, and year, so although there have been great memories in the past, I am looking forward to starting fresh in 2020 and creating new memories!
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Before I get into some things I am leaving behind in 2019, I wanted to share about this look! You can wear this one into January and February, and I love that this look combines all of the neutrals.
These suede booties from Sole Society are actually on sale right now, and come in leopard, too! I have size 7 on for reference. I am wearing it with this neutral crossbody bag, also from Sole Society, that an be worn on your shoulder, wrist, or over your body. I love how this color goes with everything.
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I paired them with these legging jeans I LOVE (wearing size 0 short) and this grey sweater (size xs). This grey coat is another great find I have shared a lot (wearing size xxs).
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And, now for some things I am leaving behind in 2019:
- The feeling of having to ALWAYS be doing something
- Letting other people’s moods or issues get you down
- Feeling guilty
- The need to be right a lot
- Judging people for their decisions (even if it is internally)
- Being too hard on myself
- Feeling resentful
- Worrying about the future
- Not getting enough sleep
- Staying on my phone too late at night
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- The idea of a “timeline” in my life
- Worrying about things that are out of my control
- Clothes and things I don’t use or wear
- Perfectionism
- Not taking breaks from social media/work
- Not being fully present
- Complaining about mundane things
- Not practicing enough self care
- Mindlessly checking my phone
- Mindlessly snacking instead of eating when I am actually hungry
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{ Tan Suede Booties | Neutral Crossbody Bag | Grey Sweater | Grey Coat | Legging Jeans | Sunglasses | Name Necklace | Evil Eye Name Necklace | BRACELETS: David Yurman Cable Bracelets here, here, and here and Cartier Love Bracelet | RINGS: David Yurman Ring here and here | WATCH: Apple Watch and Watch Case and Glitter Watch Band }
In partnership with Sole Society.