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20 Things I Am Leaving Behind in 2019

lifestyle and fashion blogger alexis belbel wearing tan suede pointed boots and neutral/camel color satchel crossbody bag from Sole Society with a grey coat, grey sweater from nordstrom topshop, hollister skinny jeans  | adoubledose.com

With only two days left of this DECADE (so crazy!), I wanted to share some things I am leaving behind in 2020. This has been quite the decade, and year, so although there have been great memories in the past, I am looking forward to starting fresh in 2020 and creating new memories!

lifestyle and fashion blogger alexis belbel wearing tan suede pointed boots and neutral/camel color satchel crossbody bag from Sole Society with a grey coat, grey sweater from nordstrom topshop, hollister skinny jeans  | adoubledose.com

Before I get into some things I am leaving behind in 2019, I wanted to share about this look! You can wear this one into January and February, and I love that this look combines all of the neutrals.

These suede booties from Sole Society are actually on sale right now, and come in leopard, too! I have size 7 on for reference. I am wearing it with this neutral crossbody bag, also from Sole Society, that an be worn on your shoulder, wrist, or over your body. I love how this color goes with everything.

lifestyle and fashion blogger alexis belbel wearing tan suede pointed boots and neutral/camel color satchel crossbody bag from Sole Society with a grey coat, grey sweater from nordstrom topshop, hollister skinny jeans  | adoubledose.com

I paired them with these legging jeans I LOVE (wearing size 0 short) and this grey sweater (size xs). This grey coat is another great find I have shared a lot (wearing size xxs).

lifestyle and fashion blogger alexis belbel wearing tan suede pointed boots and neutral/camel color satchel crossbody bag from Sole Society with a grey coat, grey sweater from nordstrom topshop, hollister skinny jeans  | adoubledose.com

And, now for some things I am leaving behind in 2019:

  • The feeling of having to ALWAYS be doing something
  • Letting other people’s moods or issues get you down
  • Feeling guilty
  • The need to be right a lot
  • Judging people for their decisions (even if it is internally)
  • Being too hard on myself
  • Feeling resentful
  • Worrying about the future
  • Not getting enough sleep
  • Staying on my phone too late at night
lifestyle and fashion blogger alexis belbel wearing tan suede pointed boots and neutral/camel color satchel crossbody bag from Sole Society with a grey coat, grey sweater from nordstrom topshop, hollister skinny jeans  | adoubledose.com
  • The idea of a “timeline” in my life
  • Worrying about things that are out of my control
  • Clothes and things I don’t use or wear
  • Perfectionism
  • Not taking breaks from social media/work
  • Not being fully present
  • Complaining about mundane things
  • Not practicing enough self care
  • Mindlessly checking my phone
  • Mindlessly snacking instead of eating when I am actually hungry
lifestyle and fashion blogger alexis belbel wearing tan suede pointed boots and neutral/camel color satchel crossbody bag from Sole Society with a grey coat, grey sweater from nordstrom topshop, hollister skinny jeans  | adoubledose.com

{ Tan Suede Booties | Neutral Crossbody Bag | Grey Sweater | Grey Coat | Legging Jeans | Sunglasses | Name Necklace | Evil Eye Name Necklace | BRACELETS: David Yurman Cable Bracelets here, here, and here and Cartier Love Bracelet | RINGS:  David Yurman Ring here and here | WATCH: Apple Watch and Watch Case and Glitter Watch Band }

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